Skip to main content

The Learning Hub

People are naturally drawn to the idea of having someone as special as you in their lives. They are captivated by your essence, mesmerized by the qualities that set you apart. But here's the truth: most people aren't used to rare. They find it unfamiliar, and they struggle to understand and appreciate it fully. This unfamiliarity often leads them to fall short in treating you with the respect and reverence you deserve. And that’s where they lose you.


When you possess qualities that are rare and exceptional, you evoke a sense of awe and admiration. People are intrigued by your uniqueness, by the light you bring into their lives. They want to be close to you, to bask in your radiance. However, admiration alone is not enough. It requires a deep understanding and a genuine appreciation of your value, something that many are not equipped to provide.

Being rare means that you see the world differently. You have a depth and complexity that many cannot fathom. Your perspectives are enriched by experiences, insights, and emotions that are not common. This uniqueness makes you incredibly valuable, but it also makes you a mystery to those who are accustomed to the ordinary. They may be enchanted by the idea of you, but they often lack the capacity to fully embrace and honor what makes you special.

In relationships, this disparity becomes evident. People may be drawn to you because of your rare qualities, but sustaining that connection requires more than just initial fascination. It demands effort, understanding, and a willingness to nurture what is precious. Many fall short because they don't know how to handle something so unique. They may try to fit you into a mold that you simply do not fit into, failing to appreciate your true essence. They miss the opportunity to see the depth of your soul and the richness of your character. And that is precisely where they lose you.

Your rarity is not something to be compromised or diluted. It is your strength, your gift to the world. You deserve to be with people who recognize your value and treat you accordingly. Those who fail to do so are simply not ready for the extraordinary. They may love the idea of you, but without the capacity to honor and cherish your uniqueness, they cannot truly have you.

As you navigate through relationships and connections, hold onto your sense of self. Do not settle for those who cannot appreciate your worth. You deserve to be with people who are not just captivated by your rarity but are also committed to valuing and nurturing it. The right people will understand that being with someone as rare as you requires more than just admiration—it requires a deep, genuine appreciation and a steadfast commitment to treating you with the care and respect you deserve.

Remember, your rarity is a gift. It sets you apart and makes you extraordinary. Those who cannot see it or treat it with the respect it deserves are simply not meant to share in the beauty of your presence. Let them go, and make space for those who will honor your uniqueness, who will celebrate your rare qualities, and who will be ready to embrace the extraordinary person that you are.

In a world that often celebrates the ordinary, being rare is a profound blessing. It means you bring something special, something irreplaceable, to the table. Do not let anyone diminish your value or make you feel less than extraordinary. The right people will not only recognize your rarity but will also rise to the occasion, treating you with the reverence and respect that you deserve. And in their company, you will find the appreciation and love that honors the exceptional person you are.

The Learning Hub 2024

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

THE LEARNING HUB: How Can I change my life completely and make it interesting

1 Talk to people not to improve but to observe and understand. 2 Dedicate at least half an hour to exercise, half an hour to hobby, half an hour for self-improvement each day. 3 Spend at least one hour of early morning time in acquiring knowledge or walking and enjoying the smooth winds outside. 4 Write a schedule for each day, make a checklist of all important activities, make sure you check most of them before falling asleep. 15 minutes: Introspect your day and identify scope of improvement. Next 15 minutes: Be thankful for whatever went right in the day and express gratitude for whatever you have till date. (Schedule for last half an hour before sleeping.) 5 Be joyful about challenges and issues in life, feel excited to test your strengths and to come out of them like a warrior. Be happy and fearless. Commit to face and fight. 6 Seek inspiration from every person you see, every person does some inspiring things in their life, however, all we do is to feel envious of them, instead ap...

PROGRAMME OF ACTIVITIES IN HONOUR OF THE LATE MONARCH HSM KING PROF. T. J. T. PRINCEWILL JP, CFR, AMACHREE Xl, AMANYANABO AND NATURAL RULER OF THE KALABARI KINGDOM, IN RIVERS STATE FROM NOVEMBER 1ST –DECEMBER 25TH 2023.

PROGRAMME OF ACTIVITIES IN HONOUR OF THE LATE MONARCH HSM KING PROF. T. J. T. PRINCEWILL JP, CFR, AMACHREE Xl, AMANYANABO AND NATURAL RULER OF THE KALABARI KINGDOM, IN RIVERS STATE FROM NOVEMBER 1ST –DECEMBER 25TH 2023. DATE/ACTIVITY ACTION BY COMMITTEE Wednesday 1st November 2023: Spiritual/Culture 4:00 am: Seven Canon Shots as Formal Traditional Announcement of The commencement of Burial Culture 8:00 am: Final (Oku) Emissaries to All Communities In Kalabari Kingdom and compounds of Buguma to announce the Burial Activities Culture Monday 6th November 2023: 6:00 am – 12:00 pm: Prayers/Fasting at various Kalabari Communities  Prayer Wednesday 8th November 2023:  5:00 am-3:00 pm: Ekine Sekiapu Perform Town Cleansing at Buguma  Culture Thursday 9th November 2023:  5:00 am: Egbele-Ereme sing round Buguma  Culture Monday 13th November 2023:  4:00 am-8:00 am: Women Native Singing Groups sing round Buguma  Culture Wednesday 15 -18 November 2023:  Ekine Sekiapu Annual night Ngbula display  Cul...

THE LEARNING HUB: Some Tips To Have A Healthy Relationship

Never underestimate the value of asking your partner how his day went. Some fights are just fights. They don't have to be deal brakers. Not all disagreements means that things are all over. All cuples fight but it's how you resolve it that counts Schedule time for yourselves. There is no need to fill your social calendar up every weekend with group events or trips. Take things easy and pencil in a visit to the cinema or a picnic in the park just for the two of you. More “ I love you “ are better than fewer. Nobody gets tired of hearing that they are loved. You really can't say it too often. Kiss hello before doing anything else when you get home. Kiss good bye when you leave Respond to each other's texts, calls… no screening when it comes to your significant other. If he needs to get in touch for whatever reason that should be priority.